6/17/2013

Getting it together

I am one of those people that can look at anything at anytime and find what's wrong with it. I am constantly trying to make my home better, cleaner and more organized. I long for the day that instead of staring, overwhelmed, at laundry and dishes- I can do it without dread. There was a time when this was me. I got up each morning, got Addie breakfast and started cleaning. I didn't stop until nap-time. (though laundry has always been my arch nemesis) Once naps were over, we played and played. Just Addie and me.

I miss being able to sit down in the middle of a perfectly clean house without a thing to do but talk to my girl. These days, I have completely lost motivation for keeping house and for me, that is something that is unacceptable.

So I have dedicated this summer to getting myself back on track. Before Piper comes, I want to be well into the routine we once were. And this time, we have school thrown in as well. So scheduling and just getting crap done will make life smooth again.

One thing though, is that I am easily discouraged by my projects when I realize I need to buy things to get them completed. So I am making an effort to accomplish all of these things with minimal purchases.

Last weekend, I put together a master list of every single little thing that needs done. Soon, I will make a smaller daily task list, and I will stick to it! It only takes 22 days to make a habit right?

Anyway, this endeavor of mine is not fully of my own doing. I have been running Proverbs 31:10 in my brain for weeks now...and I am just disappointed with myself. I think probably the thought in my head is no accident. I am clearly being pushed to get it together, and soon.

So welcome to my new series on the blog. It is not a planned amount of weeks...because who knows how long this will take. But I plan to share my journey with you...and I am hoping it will help hold me accountable!

What about you? Do you have a goal for summer? Is your house a daunting task too?






6/14/2013

Weekend Reads!

Hey guys! Welcome to the first ever Weekend Reads link up! I am really excited to be co-hosting with Paige from A Dose of Paige! 

If you aren't sure what weekend reads is, it is a new link up- started by Paige, that basically consists of blog posts from the week before! A lot of us do our blog reading on the weekends and this is a great way to find new great blogs and also get some of our own posts out there! 

So if this is something that may interest you, check out the guidelines and link those posts up! 

Here's the details:
1. The link up will go live every Friday at midnight CST.
2. You can link up to two posts.
3. Only link up posts that you've posted in the past 14 days.
4. Do not link up any giveaways unless they are attached to actual content.
5. Spend some time, click on some posts and leave a few comments if you loved what you read!
6. Be kind and follow your hosts on your favorite reader.

Also, if you love twitter and want to get your post out there, use the hashtag #weekendreads to shout your post out! 

Next week, the most clicked on links will get featured so tell your friends and get to clicking!

A Dose of Paige
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6/13/2013

Guarding your heart

Happy Thursday guys, we are getting closer to the weekend!


Today I really wanted to share something that has been on my mind a lot lately. This is something that is pretty constantly resounding in my head as I raise Addie, grow as a person and think about bringing another little girl into the world. 

It is this verse: 

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I do not talk a lot about my beliefs here, because my relationship with God is very personal to me. I enjoy conversing about it, but on the same token I like to keep it intimate. That is just me. 

But this is something I think everyone can live by. This verse can be applied to so many different sides of our lives, and I just wanted to share why at this point in my life, it is almost a mantra. 

In the most general of terms, this is a verse I was reminded of a lot growing up. My dad always told me to guard my heart. Everything you do, say...react to comes from your heart. Every decision you make comes from your heart and as I grow this is still something I have to practice.

As a parent I want my girls to grow up trusting their gut like I do my own. Being able to trust their hearts to make sound and righteous decisions. I want them to see that if you are true to your heart- you are certain to succeed at whatever you do. 

As a wife, protecting my heart from negative feelings is key. I am pretty easily rocked...things get to me easily when it comes to Jake. Because I do trust him with my life and my loyalty, I sometimes let fear in and it is never good. 

As a Christian, protecting my heart means  having control of what affects me and what I emit. and while it is a daily struggle, I would rather be overly conscious of the integrity of my heart that to not be in the slightest. 

What about you? Do you guard your heart?





6/12/2013

Snips & snails and puppy dog tails...

Today on the blog is one of my Best Friends, and favorite bloggers- Paige! You may recognize the blog name from my in-post ad this month.  She just added the most adorable little baby pup to her family and is here to tell you all about him! 


Like most little girls, one thing I always wanted was a puppy. We had dogs, but they were outside dogs and they were big.

I wanted an indoor dog that was tiny. When I grew up, I figured that was my perfect opportunity but the I got married and for some reason, my husband, Cody, didn't want a small dog.

It turns out men like fast cars and big dogs.

But, this little guy kinda fell into our laps. His name is Exo and he's our little German Taco, or Chiweenie if you'd rather call him that. 


It was not love at first sight. 

Or second.

Or third.

I had talked to people at getting a dog before and always said it would be a good way to get used to responsibility before we wanted kids but I never actually thought it would be like having a baby.

You see, puppies can be a bit of a handful.

All of a sudden, I have someone following me to the bathroom and staring at me while I pee.

I have someone that whines at me in the morning when I sleep in.

If I leave anything on the floor, especially tissues, they will get torn up and thrown everywhere.

He wants to play all the time. That means either I'm playing and taking away from my quality couch/watching tv time or there are toys strewn from one end of my living room to the other. 



He wants up in my chair, he wants down from my chair.

All of a sudden, there's a creature in my house that has to take more medicines than I do. Hartgard, flea, allergy medicine. Where does it end!



He loves to run outside and when he runs, he runs fast. So fast that I drop his leash and then have to dive bomb and slide into the ground to get it.

There may be battle wounds.



He gets upset when we leave. He may whine, bark and cry and then just decide to be mad and tear up everything in his room. 



And let's not even get started on the potty training!

Don't get me wrong though. There are some benefits.

It's fun to get stopped in petco and told you have the cutest creature in the world.

When you're crying and he comes up to you and cuddles and licks your face, it can't help but make you smile. Even though it's only because he likes the way they taste.


He certainly cures any boredom that you may have. 



And let's just be real, when you get to snuggle with a sleeping puppy laying on your shoulder, it makes everything worth it.


Owning a puppy may be a new thing to us, but I think we're handling it pretty well. At least that's what I tell myself when he has an accident or chews up so much paper that I just know he had to have eaten some of it!

I hope you'll stop by the blog to see some more posts about Exo and of course, other, less adorable things!






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and before you go, coming up: Paige has started a new link up!

It is called Weekend Reads, and will be a place for you to link up two of your favorite posts from the week. It will be a great way to do some blog catch up over the weekend and meet some new friends! 

Also, if you are interested in co-hosting, email her

 It goes live for the first time this Friday (the 14th) at 12 AM CST! 
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